Hii :) I just got another mail from my friend, who regulary sends me awesome mails of articles he read, anyway he asked me to do a kind of review/comment on it what I think about it and I think I did a pretty good job so I am putting it up here.
The dark blue text is the article and the green text is my comment.
1. The only person that can ever truly make you happy is
yourself. Stop depending on everyone else.
1. there are special situations in life, in which u truly depend on someone, for example true love. where u cant quite live without a special person.
2. People lie, stuff happens. Don’t take it too personally.
2. well if my boyfriend betrays me - dont take it too personally ? i dont know. i think this point is only right for the people who are not too close to you like people from your job or so. when its about a very close friend, someone from ur family or ur boyfriend/girlfriendvits ur job as a human being to take in personally ! lol
3. Want people to think you’re amazing? Start believing you are, and then they will too.
3. the aim is not to make others believe u r amazing. the aim is self confidence and it should never come from what other people think of u. even if u think about urself that u r amazing there is no guirantee that they r thinking so then too. if a girl comes to you who thinks she is awesome and is unfriendly to you will you also think she is awesome?
4. Smiling is the ultimate anti-depressant. Smile and laugh out loud, it doesn’t look stupid, I promise.
4. as long as the smile is there to fight depression and not to hide it, i 100%ly agree.
5. The world is never just black and white, right or wrong, one way or another. Try and see things from as many points of view as possible.
5. well this is very important, because it opens u the door of understanding, the problem is just that if you have to make a decision it is much harder to see it from many points of views because all views have their pro and con and its just hard to decide with 10 ways instead of 2. but probably in the other 8 ways there is a perfect way for you. so do think of things from different points of views but dont overthink it and get confused.
6. "Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final"
— Rainer Maria Rilke
6. awesome chosen quote.
7. Have empathy.
8. Gossip, problems of the past, events you cannot control, negative thoughts and negative people; time spent on these is time poorly wasted.
7+8. total agreement
9. When you're jealous or find yourself filled with hate for someone/something, stop. The only person its hurting is you.
9. well its hard to just stop feeling. as u cant just stop to love someone u cant just stop to hate someone either. stopping in this case would most probably cause inner depression and pretention. jealousity in general: have ur own aims have ur own goals which u want to archieve and clfocus on ur own path, because sitting aside and watching the others succeed and being jealous will not bring you anywhere. know what your aims are and focus on archieving them, nothing else. and hate: if you hate a person or a person makes u unhappy, just try to avoid them, its all u can do. fact is there are people on earth who are driving us crazy (in a negative way) u cannot change them. either u try to talk and make peace between u and if this doesnt work u can only avoid that person.
10. Although the newest, most expensive material things may make you feel as if you’re a better person, they won’t hold you at night or listen to you when you need it. Make sure your priorities make sense.
10. again total agreement.
11. Step outside your comfort zone- it’s when you’ll really feel alive.
11. well ... hmmm ... yeah ... in a case its right. if you always do those things u already know u will never find out something new, but its important to do that if u want it in my opinion, there are days where the power for outside of the comfort zones is just not there and also some comfort is not bad. i would say, dont be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, to try something new, but its always good to come home and back to the things we are used to, too. it is important to switch.
12. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, the people who really matter, don’t mind.
12. true
13. Let your emotions out sometimes, humans have them for a reason.
13. 100% agreed !! its not good to pretend to be someone u are not. it feels better to be liked by a few for something u are than being liked by many for something u are not.
14. Celebrate the things you have. Think only positively of the things you don’t (but would like to have) and they too will come.
14. again very true !
15. Love unconditionally ♥.
15. love truly and from ur heart!
follow ur love and dont hide it!
love unconditionally!
and dont let anyone tell u how to love or live, because u are the only person who knows it ;) !!♥
The dark blue text is the article and the green text is my comment.
1. The only person that can ever truly make you happy is
yourself. Stop depending on everyone else.
1. there are special situations in life, in which u truly depend on someone, for example true love. where u cant quite live without a special person.
2. People lie, stuff happens. Don’t take it too personally.
2. well if my boyfriend betrays me - dont take it too personally ? i dont know. i think this point is only right for the people who are not too close to you like people from your job or so. when its about a very close friend, someone from ur family or ur boyfriend/girlfriendvits ur job as a human being to take in personally ! lol
3. Want people to think you’re amazing? Start believing you are, and then they will too.
3. the aim is not to make others believe u r amazing. the aim is self confidence and it should never come from what other people think of u. even if u think about urself that u r amazing there is no guirantee that they r thinking so then too. if a girl comes to you who thinks she is awesome and is unfriendly to you will you also think she is awesome?
4. Smiling is the ultimate anti-depressant. Smile and laugh out loud, it doesn’t look stupid, I promise.
4. as long as the smile is there to fight depression and not to hide it, i 100%ly agree.
5. The world is never just black and white, right or wrong, one way or another. Try and see things from as many points of view as possible.
5. well this is very important, because it opens u the door of understanding, the problem is just that if you have to make a decision it is much harder to see it from many points of views because all views have their pro and con and its just hard to decide with 10 ways instead of 2. but probably in the other 8 ways there is a perfect way for you. so do think of things from different points of views but dont overthink it and get confused.
6. "Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final"
— Rainer Maria Rilke
6. awesome chosen quote.
7. Have empathy.
8. Gossip, problems of the past, events you cannot control, negative thoughts and negative people; time spent on these is time poorly wasted.
7+8. total agreement
9. When you're jealous or find yourself filled with hate for someone/something, stop. The only person its hurting is you.
9. well its hard to just stop feeling. as u cant just stop to love someone u cant just stop to hate someone either. stopping in this case would most probably cause inner depression and pretention. jealousity in general: have ur own aims have ur own goals which u want to archieve and clfocus on ur own path, because sitting aside and watching the others succeed and being jealous will not bring you anywhere. know what your aims are and focus on archieving them, nothing else. and hate: if you hate a person or a person makes u unhappy, just try to avoid them, its all u can do. fact is there are people on earth who are driving us crazy (in a negative way) u cannot change them. either u try to talk and make peace between u and if this doesnt work u can only avoid that person.
10. Although the newest, most expensive material things may make you feel as if you’re a better person, they won’t hold you at night or listen to you when you need it. Make sure your priorities make sense.
10. again total agreement.
11. Step outside your comfort zone- it’s when you’ll really feel alive.
11. well ... hmmm ... yeah ... in a case its right. if you always do those things u already know u will never find out something new, but its important to do that if u want it in my opinion, there are days where the power for outside of the comfort zones is just not there and also some comfort is not bad. i would say, dont be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, to try something new, but its always good to come home and back to the things we are used to, too. it is important to switch.
12. Don’t be afraid to be yourself, the people who really matter, don’t mind.
12. true
13. Let your emotions out sometimes, humans have them for a reason.
13. 100% agreed !! its not good to pretend to be someone u are not. it feels better to be liked by a few for something u are than being liked by many for something u are not.
14. Celebrate the things you have. Think only positively of the things you don’t (but would like to have) and they too will come.
14. again very true !
15. Love unconditionally ♥.
15. love truly and from ur heart!
follow ur love and dont hide it!
love unconditionally!
and dont let anyone tell u how to love or live, because u are the only person who knows it ;) !!♥
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